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1995-born. Charles University alum. Head of Performance at Mixit. 10+ years in marketing and data.

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How I Fell in Love With Her, at First Sight

How filming one advert in September 2023 turned into love at first sight
Richard Golian
Richard Golian · 274 reads
Hi, I am Richard. On this blog, I share thoughts, personal stories, findings and what I am working on. I hope this article brings you some value.

It was September 2023. My life, my work, everything was completely different from now. It was simpler. Everything was simpler. Neither at work nor in my personal life was I dealing with any big problems. At least I do not remember any.

My work at that time was very interesting and varied. We did not have a big marketing team in the company then. When an advert had to be set up on Facebook, I set it up, when it had to be filmed, I took my iPhone and filmed it.

I had accommodation right at the company where I worked. I could get up 5 minutes before I walked into the office.

I owned almost nothing. I have written on this blog about the simplicity of my life at that time.

On 17 September 2023 something in my life changed.

I needed to film an advert, I went up to a floor inside the company where the product I needed for that advert was, and there I noticed her for the first time.

She laughs at me when I describe it like this, but at that moment the universe told me, that is her.

In situations like this I was not in the habit of being brave with women, but this time I went straight up to her and asked whether I could film a video with her for the advert.

That courage of mine probably came partly from the fact that I simply needed to film that advert. It was our most important product and it badly needed marketing support. I was completely absorbed in work, focused on the result.

She agreed that I could film her.

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